Hi, thanks for clicking to find out a little more about Custodial Dad. I’ll keep it brief!
These days, I define myself as a parent first and foremost. Before my son came along, I was probably the typical workaholic with almost a singular focus on my career and “moving up” in the world. Looking back, I regret not having slowed down to stop and smell the roses. But with the birth of my son, I realized the true meaning of joy. Being here to watch him as he grows and being the one to help guide his way in this world are beyond any joy I’ve ever felt.
Being the father, especially of a toddler, most people are surprised when they hear that I am the custodial parent. It’s not surprising considering less than 10% of fathers choose or end up with primary custody in a divorce. I had one of those divorces that many of us have heard about…one where everything is thrown at it, including the kitchen sink. It was without a doubt the most stressful and expensive experience of my life but knowing how my ex was, I knew I had to fight for his sake. It was a 3 year process and I often get the question “don’t you regret ever marrying that woman”? If I could go back in time, I would still take the same path…the path that blessed me with this wonderful little boy.
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